Common misunderstandings
A few things people get wrong about counseling.
We have answered these questions for a long time. Here are a few honest answers.
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Myth It's a sign of weakness.
What’s true Asking for help takes real courage, and we see it as one of the strongest things you can do.
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Myth It's only for people in crisis.
What’s true Everyone struggles sometimes, and you don't have to be falling apart to come talk with us.
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Myth It's only for women.
What’s true Plenty of men come to counseling, often a little reluctantly at first, and many of them are glad they kept coming.
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Myth The counselor has all the answers.
What’s true Your counselor is a trained person who isn’t all-knowing, and a lot of their empathy comes from hard seasons of their own.
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Myth It's just advice.
What’s true Friends give advice. A counselor helps you learn to work out what's yours.
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Myth It's a last resort.
What’s true Coming in early is kinder to yourself, the same way you'd get stitches for a cut before it has a chance to get infected.